My girlfriend and I are having some i
ssues. I personally don’t see what our issues are, but she’s adamant that things aren’t working. I’ve asked her why and it’s because I apparently seem disinterested and like I don’t want to hang out with her, or when I do hang out with her I don’t show her enough attention. I don’t know, honestly, because I do want to hang out with her. And in my opinion, I do show her attention.
It’s pretty exhausting, I’m not going to lie to you. But if I don’t do something to show her that I love her and want to be with her, then I’m going to lose her. That would devastate me, and it’s also making me feel pretty anxious. It might even be making me more reserved than normal, which is adding to our issues.
What should I do to show my girlfriend
that I love her? Buying her a bunch of thornless roses seems like a nice thing to do, but I’m worried that it won’t be enough. Either the bunch won’t be big enough or the roses won’t be the right colour. I just don’t know how to please her anymore. I miss the days where we got along like a house on fire. Now it’s like there’s a moat surrounding the house that’s completely impenetrable.
Maybe if I buy her something more permanent than roses, and I can say that our love will last as long as these flowers do. To say that I’d have to buy seeds online of a really hardy plant, one that can’t die no matter how badly someone looks after it. I’ll have to ask the experts about which plant seeds would be best because I don’t know much about them.
I hope when I give my girlfriend these seeds she sees how much thought I’ve put into them. I want to be with her forever, but that will be hard if she doesn’t want to be.